Quiet Revolution

The Quiet Revolution of abundant Warrior Love

I suggest warrior love is about exploring our capacity to draw from an infinite wise well of love. That loving relationships are the norm and we are naturally good at loving, where we no longer allow our parasitical negative conditioning to puncture our natural ability to be love, loving and loveable.

I suggest that we need alternative ways of reconnecting to warrior love.  I believe we need different people at different times in our life that bring fresh love into our lives; that one partner for life, often cannot suffice for our real needs.  Our conditioned fear so often says, “no!  I want just one person to love me and nobody else.” Where the fear of abandonment is too much.

I suggest we need new relationship choices and the one I talk about later in this book is Polyamory – which simply means we openly and honestly love more than one person and are learning without guilt or shame to be honest to our primary partner and vice-versa.

I believe we can learn how to reduce jealousy and making each other and ourselves wrong for this open relationship change!  Monogamy has served us as one model for many generations.  However, people are becoming increasingly separated, because we, as individuals, are rapidly changing and one reason for this is that we are learning to love who we truly are.  This in turn can make us more loving and loveable. This new way of being needs to be embraced and understood otherwise future children will grow in an atmosphere of conflict and arguments of “who is right?” and “who is wrong?”

A new consciousness creates a new reality

With self-help books and therapies, we learn about our different energies of self-love, self-compassion and self-worth. These qualities are gradually permeating into consciousness. However, often it is only one person in a partnership that is willing to grow, and the partner who is working on their past hurt becomes frustrated on many levels and can choose to seek love elsewhere. (I realize this is a generalization).

So this dream and vision is to challenge us as humans that we are born to love and be love. That if we increase (authentic) teachings of self-love we need to create a conscious society and culture that validates more honesty about our need to seek “open love” that learns to dissolve jealousy and lies and abuse. I believe we can do it with powerful inner wisdom.

In my opinion, if mankind was helped to be more aware and conscious about our ability to love more than one person, and we chose to be free to love with openness and honesty, could wars stop and slavery in all its forms cease? Could spiritual and sexual abuse and negative addictions of all kinds dissolve by learning what I call warrior love? We need to be brave with inner wisdom and create strong role models that can wake us up to our ability to love without shame, guilt and fear.

Warrior love is about creating a culture where it is safe to be open and honest about our ability to love openly—not hiding and hurting others and losing integrity. I ask: Can we shift in consciousness about our (apparently hard-wired) jealous feelings if our partner is attracted to someone else? What would our society be like if each of us took our personal power to share more openly, communicating honestly about our emotional and sexual needs, without vilification? Nearly everyone learns, in our monogamous society, that spouses have exclusive rights to each other. We are conditioned to feel that if our partner is interested in someone else we will be replaced—or that it is a personal rejection of ourselves. I will carry on in future blogs!