Becoming Open To 'Open Love!'

"Warrior love is about creating a culture where it is safe to be open and honest about our ability to love openly—not hiding and hurting others and losing integrity. I ask: Can we shift in consciousness about our (apparently hard-wired) jealous feelings if our partner is attracted to someone else?

 What would our society be like if each of us took our personal power to share more openly, communicating honestly about our emotional and sexual needs, without vilification? Nearly everyone learns, in our monogamous society, that spouses have exclusive rights to each other. We are conditioned to feel that if our partner is interested in someone else we will be replaced—or that it is a personal rejection of ourselves.

Imagine a culture where your partner’s attraction to another created increased pleasure, joy and intimacy for you. Would jealousy be such a monumental experience of destruction? So warrior love asks each of us to look at the questions: 

How does jealousy affect me? And what can I do about it? Must I feel ashamed for having jealous thoughts? However, I could learn with openness and deep sharing, not to let those feelings swamp me.

The need for good male mentoring:

A news report informed us that there is an increased awareness of sex at much younger ages, and one concerning consequence of this is increasing non-consensual sex (rape) —especially around the poorer estates in cities. With [often young] men, being in a confused mind set to grab intimacy through rape, this is such a signal that there is never a better time, I suggest, for learning “warrior love”—where we teach and mentor positive ways to love our self and then love each other. 

We no longer blame anyone, especially our parents, partners, or ourselves. We dissolve our parasite of negative domestication. We become aware with active consciousness to transform our lives through fewer lies with open living. 

We learn to manage trauma, intensity, and unequal sex drives, with less jealousy and addictions. The judge and the victim no longer control our mind. Our minds become fertile for intense and active love and a new dream is born. We are energy and as we increase consciousness we can use this force for good—not abuse and enslavement towards women and children. And men become free of being the abuser or wrongdoer."

From Warrior Love.