Questions to think before COMING OUT!

Questions to ask you when thinking of COMING OUT! From Opening Up by Tristan Taormino

·      How much does your open relationship affect your daily life?

·      How might the people you love react to the announcement that you are non-monogamous?

·      How important is it that the following people know you are non-monogamous, family members, friends, co-workers, neighbours?

·      How would you feel if all or some of the above rejected you?

·      What kind of job do you have? Would being open put your job in jeopardy?

·      Do you have children? Are there potential custody issues?

·      What is the general social, political and religious climate where you live?

·      Do you have support groups especially if coming out goes badly?

Personal insight:

With hindsight I would have loved to read these questions before publishing Warrior Love.