Time To Think

Nancy Kline opens our minds to see and think more clearly in her books:

 TIME TO THINK & MORE TIME TO THINK.

I just want to recommend these two books to my readers. They will enhance your life in ways of communicating with self and others that I believe brings out the best in all parties.

It is rare that a person can bring so much deep experience to help people open their minds to new ways of thinking, relating and truly listening with appreciation.

My love Roger

Children Love to be loved by parents who love themselves!

Children love to be loved by adults who love themselves from a place of deep personal integrity.

Imagine that our children are mentored in strong self-esteem, warrior love, from year one, by parents and teachers who love who they are; experiencing self-love, especially at school and other places of learning. This would be such an exciting adventure for young minds. Children love to be listened to about all subjects, especially learning to love self without shame and guilt. I believe bullying and early abuse dissolves together with wise boundaries of self-love and self-knowledge. I see warrior love being taught in schools and through college life and even in businesses and government organizations. Warrior love includes teachings that serve our rich humanity—not just cramming knowledge.

In my vision, men and women of all generations dissolve their “secret lives” that come from stories of pain, and alchemize it with becoming “brave” with truth. We learn Toltec wisdom from teachers like Don Miquel Ruiz:

To be impeccable with our word; where we no longer take things personally; we no longer make assumptions; and we always do our best.

IMAGINE WARRIOR LOVE!

Children love to be loved by adults who love themselves from a place of deep personal integrity.

Imagine that our children are mentored in strong self-esteem, warrior love, from year one, by parents and teachers who love who they are; experiencing self-love, especially at school and other places of learning. This would be such an exciting adventure for young minds. Children love to be listened to about all subjects, especially learning to love self without shame and guilt. I believe bullying and early abuse dissolves together with wise boundaries of self-love and self-knowledge. I see warrior love being taught in schools and through college life and even in businesses and government organizations. Warrior love includes teachings that serve our rich humanity—not just cramming knowledge.

In my vision, men and women of all generations dissolve their “secret lives” that come from stories of pain, and alchemize it with becoming “brave” with truth. We learn Toltec wisdom from teachers like Don Miquel Ruiz:

To be impeccable with our word; where we no longer take things personally; we no longer make assumptions; and we always do our best.

Our healing energies increase moment by moment as we create new beliefs and agreements that assist right-action to heal the “dream” of this wounded earth. We create a culture that mentors and shares what helps to create loving relationships with self and others. This information, with practice and will power, becomes a priority for each of us to learn. Enlightened women, men, and children become our authentic warrior guides and we learn to trust each other through trusting our inner power of warrior love.

Forgiveness and letting go blame, by men and women, becomes our hallmark of regaining trust. No longer do we stay victims with a harsh judge. We become dream masters. We become truly responsible by being intuitively wild and free. Self-love opens us to a key that opens our heart; our story is shared with “brave vulnerable truth.” We choose to love and become warrior love – even when life is tough.

Money becomes a transaction of abundant love. There is only one world – no third world!  Feminine energy is wisely integrated into business and all transactions. Co-operation of skill and knowledge opens new avenues of sustainable methods of living.

Religions no longer compete for our minds. Each soul is a priestess or priest. Life is seen and experienced as an exciting school that unfolds with delightful surprises. People’s minds, bodies, and souls, wake up from being negatively domesticated. When we become aware that we are not free, we take right action to be truly free from a virus of self-destruction. Chaos becomes a true heaven on earth.

Families, communities and countries co-operate. Manipulation through guilt, resentment, criticism, jealousy and fear are dissolved by being constantly connected to the power of spiritual and sexual healing energies within each of us. We learn to wake every day with gratitude and practice the gentle art of blessing. As we build gratitude we attract prosperity of every kind: Friends, time, good health, and wisdom.

Instead of being victims, warrior love assists people inside work organizations to free their hearts and attract work they love. Humans share with a warrior heart to become brave and truthful with all that they think, say, and do.

As we embrace warrior love we create a paradigm shift of consciousness to live an enlightened life that creates miracles of healing whenever needed. We no longer survive; we live our love energy in the now.

Change is healthy, as we become open and receptive to being truthful to our partners and ourselves. “Time to Think” with friendly thoughts and beliefs in our minds is natural.  People listen to themselves and each other with love, forgiveness, and appreciation. We make real advances in being truthful about our spiritual and sexual desires. Our “earth guide only” (ego) is loved in such a way that it moves us from fear to authentic love. We don’t fight our ego, we dissolve its fear around our death. Because we realize we never die, we just transmute into spirit of a higher vibration of love.

Governments and religious leaders of countries are made up of people who love life and new agreements are made with consciousness and easily kept. Ageing reverses, worry is dissolved, and we realize we could live for an average of 200 years and move onto the next training ground with ease. Our words, thoughts and actions are creative when connected with meditation, prayer and disciplined warrior action. We speak and sing a new language of heartfelt affirmations. This gives the Source clear and wise messages that we are “ready” to be totally connected to the power of being at one with Source.

Humans choose to dissolve the parasite of fear that comes from the negative mass media and many other sources. Our whole drama of false beliefs and negative agreements are seen and transformed through actions of intense warrior love. Our impeccable word “hovers over the water” and we give thanks from our infinite heart of love and healthy love returns multiplied. And so it is.

Contentment

Contentment is a vital ingredient of wise love. Here’s a story by Anthony De Mello, a Catholic priest who had a great way of making things simple out of what seemed complex philosophical ideas:

The Contented Fisherman

A rich man on holiday by the seaside came across a fisherman sitting beside his boat, smoking his pipe and drinking a cup of tea. “Why aren’t you out fishing in your fine boat? It’s a fine day and you could catch plenty of fish. You’re just wasting valuable time sitting here idly like this,” said the wealthy traveler.

“I’ve caught enough fish for today. Why do I need any more?” asked the fisherman.

“Well, more fish means more profit. You could sell your excess fish in the market, and after a while you would have enough money to buy yourself some bigger nets. That would allow you to catch even more fish. Then you could maybe buy a second boat and hire more men to work for you. Perhaps in ten years’ time you might have a big house, nice clothes, and a lot of money in the bank,” said the rich man, sticking out his chest.

“And what would I do then?”

“Then you’d really be able to take it easy and enjoy life!”

“What do you think I’m doing now?” asked the fisherman as he took another drink from his cup.

GOOD HEALTH

Everything in my experience, especially in relationships, is a mirror of the mental pattern that is going on inside me! When I lie to myself, it hurts and creates more lies. Until I confront those half-truths and come clean, I hide my true talents, and my ego stops my ability to love life.

—Roger

     When I facilitated HEAL YOUR LIFE sessions I witnessed people’s mental and spiritual hearts expanding with forgiveness and truly owning their family emotional patterns that have hindered awareness of the inner miracle of their lives. To hide our miracle of love is such a waste of energy. The music of their souls shines great healing to each other. As trust grows, I do less teaching and let their “heart wisdom” begin to open new doors of opportunity. I just give thanks for the process that unravels each person’s unique healing. Sometimes I am asked, “What is good health?” Then I remember, word for word, the following quote from Heart Thoughts, by Louise Hay:

Good health

Is having no fatigue,

Having a good appetite,

Going to sleep and awakening easily,

Having a good memory.

Having good humor

Having precision in thought and action,

and being honest, humble, grateful and loving.

How healthy are you?

Well, I still have work to do; the real difference now is that I enjoy the journey even when it gets tough! Perhaps the title of my next book will be Divine Mind Willing.

TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE!

Be your “self”

Many of us feel we live in a society that often wants to control us and make us think the same as everyone else, so that we “fit in”. Yet my spirit is unique, just as yours is unique. Here’s a fitting story by Leo Buscaglia called Educated Insolence:

The animals got together in the forest one day and decided to start a school. There was a rabbit, a bird, a squirrel, a fish, and an eel, and they formed a Board of Education. The rabbit insisted that running be in the curriculum. The bird insisted that flying be in the curriculum. The fish insisted that swimming be in the curriculum, and the squirrel insisted that perpendicular tree climbing be in the curriculum. They put all of these things together and wrote a Curriculum Guide.

Then they insisted that all of the animals take all of the subjects. Although the rabbit was getting A in running, perpendicular tree climbing was a real problem for him; he kept falling over backwards. Pretty soon he got to be brain damaged and he couldn’t run any more. He found that instead of making an A in running he was making a C, and of course he always made an F in perpendicular tree climbing.

The bird was really beautiful at flying, but when it came to burrowing in the ground, he couldn’t do so well. He kept breaking his beak and wings. Pretty soon he was making a C at flying as well as an F in burrowing, and he had a bad time with perpendicular tree climbing.

The moral of the story is that the person who was best of the class was a mentally retarded eel who did everything in a halfway fashion. But the educators were all happy because everybody was taking all of the subjects and it was called broad-based education.

I invite you to respect the fact that we are all so different—valuing freedom to think in our own minds and able to become a person with a unique talent of being a miracle of warrior love! What blesses one blesses all! Happiness is sure to come from such creativity. If anyone wants you to conform, just send him or her love and go on along your very own path of loving life.