The Quiet Revolution
of abundant Warrior Love
I suggest warrior
love is about exploring our capacity to draw from an infinite wise well of
love. That loving relationships are the norm and we are naturally good at
loving, where we no longer allow our parasitical negative conditioning to
puncture our natural ability to be love, loving and loveable.
I suggest that we need alternative ways of
reconnecting to warrior love. I believe we need different people at
different times in our life that bring fresh love into our lives; that one
partner for life, often cannot suffice for our real needs. Our conditioned fear so often says, “no! I want just one person to love me and nobody else.” Where
the fear of abandonment is too much.
I suggest we need new relationship choices
and the one I talk about later in this book is Polyamory – which simply means
we openly and honestly love more than one person and are learning without guilt
or shame to be honest to our primary partner and vice-versa.
I believe we can learn how to reduce jealousy
and making each other and ourselves wrong for this open relationship change!
Monogamy has served us as one model for many generations. However, people are becoming
increasingly separated, because we, as individuals, are rapidly changing and
one reason for this is that we are learning to love who we truly are. This in turn can make us more loving
and loveable. This new way of being needs to be embraced and understood
otherwise future children will grow in an atmosphere of conflict and arguments
of “who is right?” and “who is wrong?”
A new consciousness creates a new
reality
With self-help books and therapies, we learn
about our different energies of self-love, self-compassion and self-worth.
These qualities are gradually permeating into consciousness. However, often it
is only one person in a partnership that is willing to grow, and the partner
who is working on their past hurt becomes frustrated on many levels and can
choose to seek love elsewhere. (I realize this is a generalization).
So this dream and vision is to challenge us
as humans that we are born to love and be love. That if we increase (authentic)
teachings of self-love we need to create a conscious society and culture that
validates more honesty about our need to seek “open love” that learns to dissolve
jealousy and lies and abuse. I believe we can do it with powerful inner wisdom.
In my opinion, if mankind was helped to be
more aware and conscious about our ability to love more than one person, and we
chose to be free to love with openness and honesty, could wars stop and slavery
in all its forms cease? Could spiritual and sexual abuse and negative
addictions of all kinds dissolve by learning what I call warrior love? We need to be brave with inner wisdom and create
strong role models that can wake us up to our ability
to love without shame, guilt and fear.
Warrior love is about creating a culture
where it is safe to be open and honest about our ability to love openly—not
hiding and hurting others and losing integrity. I ask: Can we shift in
consciousness about our (apparently hard-wired) jealous feelings if our partner
is attracted to someone else? What would our society be like if each of us took
our personal power to share more openly, communicating honestly about our
emotional and sexual needs, without vilification? Nearly everyone learns, in
our monogamous society, that spouses have exclusive rights to each other. We
are conditioned to feel that if our partner is interested in someone else we
will be replaced—or that it is a personal rejection of ourselves.
Imagine a culture
where your partner’s attraction to another created increased pleasure, joy and
intimacy for you.
Would jealousy be such a monumental experience of destruction? So warrior love asks each of us to look at
the questions: How does jealousy affect me? And what can I do about it? Must I
feel ashamed for having jealous thoughts? However, I could learn with openness
and deep sharing, not to let those feelings swamp me.
A news report informed us that there is an
increased awareness of sex at much younger ages, and one concerning consequence
of this is increasing non-consensual sex (rape) —especially around the poorer
estates in cities. With [often young] men, being in a confused mind set to grab intimacy through rape,
this is such a signal that there is never a better time, I suggest, for
learning “warrior love”—where we teach and mentor positive ways to love our
self and then love each other. We no longer blame anyone, especially our
parents, partners, or ourselves. We dissolve our parasite of negative
domestication. We become aware with active consciousness to transform our lives
through fewer lies with open living. We learn to manage trauma, intensity, and
unequal sex drives, with less jealousy and addictions. The judge and the victim
no longer control our mind. Our minds become fertile for intense and active
love and a new dream is born. We are energy and as we increase consciousness we
can use this force for good—not abuse and enslavement towards women and
children. And men become free of being the abuser or wrongdoer.
How?
Children love to be loved by adults who love
themselves from a place of deep personal integrity.
Imagine that our children are mentored in
strong self-esteem, warrior love,
from year one, by parents and teachers who love who they are; experiencing
self-love, especially at school and other places of learning. This would be
such an exciting adventure for young minds. Children love to be listened to
about all subjects, especially learning to love self without shame and guilt. I
believe bullying and early abuse dissolves together with wise boundaries of
self-love and self-knowledge. I see warrior love being taught in schools and
through college life and even in businesses and government organizations.
Warrior love includes teachings that
serve our rich humanity—not just cramming knowledge.
In my vision, men and women of all
generations dissolve their “secret lives” that come from stories of pain, and
alchemize it with becoming “brave” with truth. We learn Toltec wisdom from teachers
like Don Miquel Ruiz:
To be impeccable
with our word; where we no longer take things personally; we no longer make
assumptions; and we always do our best.
Our healing energies increase moment by
moment as we create new beliefs and agreements that assist right-action to heal
the “dream” of this wounded earth. We create a culture that mentors and shares
what helps to create loving relationships with self and others. This
information, with practice and will power, becomes a priority for each of us to
learn. Enlightened women, men, and children become our authentic warrior guides and we learn to trust
each other through trusting our inner power of warrior love.
Forgiveness and letting go blame, by men and
women, becomes our hallmark of regaining trust. No longer do we stay victims
with a harsh judge. We become dream
masters. We become truly responsible by being intuitively wild and free.
Self-love opens us to a key that opens our heart; our story is shared with
“brave vulnerable truth.” We choose to love and become warrior love – even when life is tough.
Money becomes a transaction of abundant love.
There is only one world – no third world!
Feminine energy is wisely integrated into business and all transactions.
Co-operation of skill and knowledge opens new avenues of sustainable methods of
living.
Religions no longer compete for our minds.
Each soul is a priestess or priest. Life is seen and experienced as an exciting
school that unfolds with delightful surprises. People’s minds, bodies, and
souls, wake up from being negatively domesticated. When we become aware that we
are not free, we take right action to be truly free from a virus of
self-destruction. Chaos becomes a true heaven on earth.
Families, communities and countries
co-operate. Manipulation through guilt, resentment, criticism, jealousy and
fear are dissolved by being constantly connected to the power of spiritual and
sexual healing energies within each of us. We learn to wake every day with
gratitude and practice the gentle art of
blessing. As we build gratitude we attract prosperity of every kind:
Friends, time, good health, and wisdom.
Instead of being victims, warrior love assists people inside work
organizations to free their hearts and attract work they love. Humans share
with a warrior heart to become brave
and truthful with all that they think, say, and do.
As we embrace warrior love we create a paradigm shift of consciousness to live an
enlightened life that creates miracles of healing whenever needed. We no longer
survive; we live our love energy in the now.
Change is healthy, as we become open and
receptive to being truthful to our partners and ourselves. “Time to Think” with
friendly thoughts and beliefs in our minds is natural. People listen to themselves and each
other with love, forgiveness, and appreciation. We make real advances in being
truthful about our spiritual and sexual desires. Our “earth guide only” (ego)
is loved in such a way that it moves us from fear to authentic love. We don’t
fight our ego, we dissolve its fear around our death. Because we realize we
never die, we just transmute into spirit of a higher vibration of love.
Governments and religious leaders of
countries are made up of people who love life and new agreements are made with
consciousness and easily kept. Ageing reverses, worry is dissolved, and we
realize we could live for an average of 200 years and move onto the next
training ground with ease. Our words, thoughts and actions are creative when
connected with meditation, prayer and disciplined warrior action. We speak and sing a new language of heartfelt
affirmations. This gives the Source clear and wise messages that we are “ready”
to be totally connected to the power of being at one with Source.
Humans choose to dissolve the parasite of
fear that comes from the negative mass media and many other sources. Our whole
drama of false beliefs and negative agreements are seen and transformed through
actions of intense warrior love. Our
impeccable word “hovers over the water” and we give thanks from our infinite heart
of love and healthy love returns multiplied. And so it is.
EXCERPT FROM WARRIOR LOVE published by Balboa Press
